Lavender House

Lavender has always carried a special weight in queer history—more than just a soft hue or a fragrant flower. In the 1950s, it became a weaponized word during what’s now called the “Lavender Scare,” when thousands of LGBTQ people were targeted, dismissed from their jobs, and forced into hiding. But queer communities have always been resilient. What was once used against us became a symbol of pride. By the time of Stonewall, lavender armbands and sashes weren’t just accessories—they were declarations of strength, resistance, and love. Lavender has come to embody the dualities of our experience: resilience and tenderness, quiet courage and bold visibility. To me, it’s a reminder that beauty can grow from even the harshest histories.

And then there’s the word “House.” For many in the queer community, houses represent more than a roof and four walls. They are places of chosen family, safe havens built when the world outside didn’t always feel welcoming. Houses are where we gather to share meals, stories, and laughter. They are where traditions are created, where we dance, celebrate, and hold each other through joy and heartbreak. A house isn’t just shelter—it’s belonging.

When I dreamed up Lavender House Events, it felt like the perfect way to bring these two powerful ideas together. Lavender for resilience, love, and queer history. House for community, celebration, and chosen family. My vision is to honor the past while creating spaces rooted in authenticity, care, and connection.

Whether it’s a wedding, a gathering, or a celebration of chosen family, my goal is always the same: to make every event feel like home. A place where you can be fully yourself, surrounded by love, beauty, and joy. Because at the heart of every celebration is not just the décor or the timeline—it’s the people, the moments, and the community we build together.